A terrific gift for girls!
You Grow Girl!
A Self-empowering Workbook
for Tweens and Teens
by Gina Scarano-Osika & Kim Dever-Johnson
Girls / Self-help
0-943914-73-6
978-0-943914-73-2
Foreword by
Joan Jacobs Brumberg
author of The Body Project
and Fasting Girls
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128 pages, 2-color interior
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Description
You Grow Girl! is a balanced, integrated workbook
addressing core issues girls 9-16 struggle with every day.
It helps girls see and be smart about connections between
self-esteem, thought patterns, eating habits, and overall
health. Its interactive sections on weight/size/food issues,
coping with stress, culture and peer pressures, deceptive
media / Internet images, exercise, mindfulness, and more,
help girls get a healthy perspective that fosters good
habits to serve them for a lifetime.
The closing chapter bridges gaps between girls and adults
with many hands-on things to do and explore together
that bring it all together and bring it home.
See "Excerpts & Info" above for a full table of contents,
advance praise for this book, printable flyers, and information
about its talented authors.
Table of Contents
I Am Beautiful
A Promise to Myself
Foreword, Joan Jacobs Brumberg
Chapter 1: Self-Esteem and Body Confidence
Samantha's story
What Is Self-Esteem?
Factors That Raise and Lower My Self-Esteem
It’s Good to Be Me!
What Is Body Confidence?
Now You See It, Now You Don’t: the magic of airbrushing
Factors That Raise and Lower My Body Confidence
Things I Want To Remember
Chapter 2: Food as Fuel
Izzy's story
Metabolism and Using Food as Fuel
Understanding Serving Sizes
Understanding Hunger and Fullness Cues
The Hunger and Fullness Scale
Listen to fullness and hunger cues
Dancers and performers
Healthy Eating Attitudes
Things I Want To Remember
Chapter 3: Way to Go!
Jenna's story
The Power of Positive Thinking on Self-Esteem
The Power of Positive Thinking on Body Confidence
The A-BE-C’s of Stress Management and Coping
My Problems and My Coping Skills
Things I Want To Remember
Chapter 4: Get Moving!
Amy's story
The Impact of Stress on Your Body
Exercise Is More than Just Activity
Exercise for Enjoyment
Ask for Help
Things I Want to Remember
Chapter 5: Five Lessons of a Highly Effective Teenaged Drama Queen
Drama Queens Say and Do Things that Create Drama
Drama Queens are Smart . . . but Sometimes Unwise
Wise People “Sit and Go Blah”
Wise People are Mindful: They “let go” of Unhealthy Thoughts and Feelings
Wise People Focus on Inner Beauty
Things I Want To Remember
Chapter 6: Beautiful Girls
Chapter 7: Do I Really Feel Bad About Myself? or did I just finish reading a teen magazine?
Becoming “media literate” (and what, is that, exactly???)
Messing with your mind
Ten things you can do together
Appendix A: My Daily Food Journal
Appendix B: My Daily Activity Journal
Appendix C: My Hunger and Fullness Scale
Appendix D: My Problems and My Coping Skills Journal
General A-BE-C form
Sexual issues
Drugs, alcohol issues
Supplementary Material: Okay Girls! Listen up
Acknowledgements
References
Index
Early praise
“The concept and the exercises are great. This workbook
helps a girl hold up a thoughtful, healthy mirror to her
interior life as a young teen. You GROW Girl! is perfect
for those who worry about obsession with body image . . .
interactive exercises provide practical, easy tools for a
healthy pathway through adolescence.”
—Joan Jacobs Brumberg, author of The Body Project
and Fasting Girls
"You GROW Girl! is a helpful tool to assist young ladies
with needed strategies for a positive self-worth. I
recommend this book for school counselors con-
ducting individual and group work with adolescent
females. A must have resource!”
—Lesli C. Myers, Ed.D., Assistant Superintendent for
Student Services, Ithaca City School District, past
president of New York State School Counselor
Association
“Positive energy radiates throughout this wonderful new
book! Its breezy style and fast-paced exercises keep girls
turning the pages until they get to the end. I strongly
recommend this workbook for girls. And I highly encourage
Moms (Dads, too) to buy your own copy and work the
thoughtful, insightful exercises. Sharing your answers with
your daughter opens the door to more intimate conversations.
—Jessica B. Gillooly, MFT, PhD, Los Angeles, CA,
author of Before She Gets Her Period: Talking
with Your Daughter about Menstruation
“The workbook looks awesome—definitely needed
these days.”
—Amy Penwell, Operations Manager, Girls on the Run
International
“This inspiring and insightful collection of activities, stories,
and words of wisdom helps girls learn to accept, appreciate,
and love their bodies . . . to be at peace with their identities . . .
so they can lead healthy and happy lives. You Grow Girl!
teaches that inner beauty is what counts and that the media
sends out confusing and misleading messages.”
—Caryn Honig RD LD, professor, University of Houston,
owner of The Healthy Weigh, and founder/ organizer
of Beautiful Me!
“Research shows that unhealthy dieting, body dissatisfaction,
low levels of physical activity, and poor eating patterns are
way too common among adolescent girls. Parents and
educators looking for a good resource for the girls in their lives
will be thrilled to find You Grow Girl! This book will help girls
feel self-empowered to make changes in how they view
their bodies, talk about weight, and deal with stress. Girls
are advised to stay away from unhealthy dieting and, instead,
adopt eating and exercise behaviors that can be maintained
on an ongoing basis. A big thank you to Gina and Kim for
writing this book!”
—Dianne Neumark-Sztainer PhD, Professor and author of
I’m, Like, So Fat! Helping your teen make healthy choices
about eating and exercise in a weight-obsessed world.
"You GROW Girl! normalizes the challenging emotional
and physical experiences of pre-teen and teen girls and
offers them practical advice . . . in a language they can
understand. Osika and Johnson remind us that true beauty
grows from the inside out and that it emerges from the
deep connections we build with ourselves and others.”
—Mary Tantillo, PhD, Univ. of Rochester's Center of
Excellence, Strong Memorial Hospital
“This workbook will be a great help as teens struggle to
sort out the sweeping range of emotions that is part
of growing up and learning to have confidence in them-
selves as young adults.”
—Sharon Alger-Mayer, MD, Medical Director,
Comprehensive Care Center for Eating Disorders,
Albany, NY
Contents (in printable PDF format)
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Printable flyers
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Girl! for school or community programs, or for their
own daughters, grandaughters, nieces, etc. (PDF)
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About the authors
Gina Scarano-Osika, Ph.D., is a NY state licensed
psychologist with 13 years’ experience working with young
women and adults. She has appeared on FOX news and in
a variety of TV/radio/print media.
Kim Dever-Johnson, MA, LMHC, NCC, is a certified
Elementary School Counselor and a Licensed Mental
Health Counselor who administers health/wellness therapy
for children and adults at hospitals and private medical
facilities.
Together they are developing a popular You Grow Girl!
program for use in schools and community programs.

